Just four days after the death of her husband Carl Dean, Dolly Parton‘s husband of nearly 60 years, the country music icon wrote and recorded a tribute for him
“Carl and I fell in love when I was 18 and he was 23, and like all great love stories, they never end,” Parton wrote on her social media, along with an early picture of the couple and the title of her new song. “They live in memory and in song,” added Parton, “and I dedicate this to him.”
‘Where would I be?”
“If You Hadn’t Been There” is a heartbreaking ballad, where Parton reflects on the impact he had on her life and career and questions where she would have been without him.
If you hadn’t been there
Where would I be?
Without your trust
Love and belief
The up’s and down’s
We’ve always shared
And I wouldn’t be here
If you hadn’t been there
If you hadn’t been there
Well, who would I be?
You always see the best in me
You’re loving arms have cradled me
You held me close, and I believe
I wouldn’t be here
If you hadn’t been there
Holding my hand
Showing you care
You made me drеam
More than I dared
And I wouldn’t be hеre
If you hadn’t been there
Dolly and Dean (1964 – 2025)
Parton first met Dean the day after she moved from her hometown of Sevierville, Tennessee to Nashville in 1964. “I met him the first day I got to Nashville, in 1964,” recalled Parton in an interview with Andy Warhol and Mary Moynihan for Interview magazine in 1984. “I graduated on a Friday night, went to Nashville on a Saturday morning with dirty clothes and I went to a Laundromat looking for anything but love. I had just left two boyfriends back home and I wasn’t looking to get involved because I had gone to Nashville to really get started in the business.”
Parton continued, “I met him at the Why Washy and he’s been wishy-washy ever since. We dated for two years before we got married. I often get myself in love trouble because I’m so passionate—I love so much and so deep. But Carl’s a special guy, I didn’t have any problems with him.”
The two married on May 30, 1966, during a private ceremony in Ringgold, Georgia. Throughout their marriage, Dean kept a mostly low profile, keeping their relationship as private as possible, and continued working for his asphalt paving business in Nashville. “A lot of people say there’s no Carl Dean,” Parton said in 1984, “that he’s just somebody I made up to keep other people off me.”
Though he wanted to remain mostly out of the public eye, Dean always supported Parton and her career. He even inspired some songs that Parton wrote early on, including her 1974 hit “Jolene,” inspired by an auburn-haired bank teller, who developed a crush on him in the late ’60s. Throughout the decades, Parton also penned more songs about Dean, including “Forever Love,” “Say Forever You’ll Be Mine,” “From Here to the Moon and Back,” and “Marry Me.”
Dean died on March 3, 2025, at age 82.
“He is in God’s arms now, and I am okay with that,” wrote Parton following Dean’s death. “I will always love you.”
